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There And (Hopefully) Back Again: A Trip to Washington

28 hours on the road, seven people in one van–one of them a screaming baby: that’s how my day began.

Yesterday morning at 8:30 AM, my family and I left my parents’ home in Kansas and drove halfway across the country to Washington state in order to visit family members that I haven’t seen in nine years. My parents have made a similar trip many times throughout my life. This, however, was my first such expedition with my wife and kids. My sister and her boyfriend joined us rather than making the trek on their own: a decision that was a great blessing as the night grew long and turned into morning again, and sleep was short and fitful.

During the trip, I recalled a truth that I had nearly forgotten: we live in a remarkably beautiful nation filled with a bevy of stunning vistas and wide-ranging climates. I love my home and the state in which I grew up, but there is ever an alluring pull when I travel through the western half of our continent. There seems to be no end to the panoramic photo opportunities for which we rarely had time during our travels.

I also learned something important about the bonds of family, friendship, and love: 28 hours is too long to be trapped in any vehicle with anyone, but not long enough to eradicate the wonderful memories formed on the trip. I could easily make such a trip again with my family, though they may prefer alternative accommodations.

One of the greatest challenges and surprise boons to this journey, was the lack of reliable cell phone data service throughout the trip. This forced us to engage with each other in place of the digital world that permeates every part of our lives these days. While I would have preferred a bit more of a connection to the outside world during the first 12 hours of the trip, it certainly provided the impetus for other methods of distraction that brought us all closer together.

We will be here for a week, and I hope to post more updates during that time. Despite the trials of the road, I look forward to the journey home again.

Briskness In the Air Descends Upon Us

I stepped outside this morning, at my parents’ house. The boys came up Friday to spend the night with Grandma & Grandpa, just the two of them. Autumn and I came up yesterday, amidst the first fall storm. The clouds parted as we approached Troy and the sun came out. It was warm, but a breeze brought a hint of the oncoming winter.

Last night, we made a fire and roasted marshmallows, as the cold front rolled in. Autumn and I curled up next to the coals for a bit before turning in.

This morning, I went outside to get Autumn’s makeup bag from the car. My mom snapped Liam into his car seat. Avery dashed ahead of me, after snagging his iPod from inside. He jumped into the car and immediately dropped into “travel mode”.

The air was cold. “51 degrees,” mom said. I took a deep breath, taking in the smells of fall, filling my lungs with the cool, crisp air. My mind turned to football and high school as it always does when the air turns and the sun starts its months-long trip into hibernation. I thought about all the great memories of fall I’ve built: tossing Avery into a pile of leaves, apple picking with the family, bundling up Liam as he experienced his first peek at cold weather.

I smiled, grabbed the makeup bag, and walked back inside, warmed despite the breeze.

Looks like I put a stem on the apple [Updated 1/27/09]

We went to the doctor today and discovered that we’re having a boy. Avery’s disappointed, because he wanted a sister, but this way he has somomeone to roughhouse with in 8 years. Let’s hope the age difference doesn’t hinder their relationship. Sonogram pics to follow (they were left in the car and it’s arctic outside).

UPDATE: Picture now live.

We have a peanut

Yesterday, we had a very important appointment with a doctor. She confirmed that we have a peanut.

There may be some of you with questions, and rather than go into all the details here, contact me via Facebook, e-mail, or the contact form above and I’ll be glad to catch you up.