{"id":4643,"date":"2022-09-30T08:52:41","date_gmt":"2022-09-30T13:52:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/zepfhyr.com\/blog\/2022\/09\/4643\/"},"modified":"2022-11-01T11:45:57","modified_gmt":"2022-11-01T16:45:57","slug":"4643","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zepfhyr.com\/blog\/2022\/09\/4643\/","title":{"rendered":"Reconnecting"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>This morning, my Clay app suggested I &#8220;reconnect&#8221; with a rather surprising email address: a long-defunct Google Group I setup for the Apple Stores in Kansas City to use as a social organization tool to plan group events, share news and info, or otherwise connect with our peers. When I left the store, the membership of the group stagnated and grew stale, as did its use (I didn&#8217;t know the new people to add to the group, and no one else seemed interested in maintaining the group).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"473\" height=\"1024\" data-attachment-id=\"4642\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/zepfhyr.com\/blog\/2022\/09\/4643\/img_8509\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/zepfhyr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/img_8509.jpg?fit=1170%2C2532&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1170,2532\" data-comments-opened=\"0\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"img_8509\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/zepfhyr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/img_8509.jpg?fit=473%2C1024&amp;ssl=1\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/zepfhyr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/img_8509.jpg?resize=473%2C1024&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4642\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/zepfhyr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/img_8509.jpg?resize=473%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 473w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/zepfhyr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/img_8509.jpg?resize=139%2C300&amp;ssl=1 139w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/zepfhyr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/img_8509.jpg?resize=69%2C150&amp;ssl=1 69w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/zepfhyr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/img_8509.jpg?resize=768%2C1662&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/zepfhyr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/img_8509.jpg?resize=710%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 710w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/zepfhyr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/img_8509.jpg?resize=946%2C2048&amp;ssl=1 946w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/zepfhyr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/img_8509.jpg?resize=676%2C1463&amp;ssl=1 676w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/zepfhyr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/img_8509.jpg?w=1170&amp;ssl=1 1170w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 473px) 100vw, 473px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Eleven years ago, two years after the group&#8217;s creation, it stopped being used. Until today, I had forgotten it existed (honestly, when I got the notification today, I assumed it had been shut down by Google). I was surprised to discover that it&#8217;s still out there, sitting dormant (much like some of the friendships I made at Apple).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I look back fondly on those years as some of the most enjoyable of my life. The people I worked with remain some of the most dear to me. I wish life hadn&#8217;t dragged us so far apart, but I&#8217;m grateful I can remain connected with some of them in various ways.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Anyway, for those interested, the <a href=\"https:\/\/clay.earth\">Clay<\/a> app is a personal CRM I use that runs on my iPhone and Mac and connects with various social media accounts and emails to help me manage personal connections. I prefer it just for helping me remember birthdays and to be mindful of relationships that need rekindled. My ADHD means that a long-dormant friendship feels just as fresh as the day it started, so there are a <em>lot<\/em> of friendships needing rekindled. It has been really helpful in managing those relationships I sometimes forget need attention. I highly recommend it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And who knows? Maybe you&#8217;ll find a long-forgotten group chat or relationship or two, as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This morning, my Clay app suggested I &#8220;reconnect&#8221; with a rather surprising email address: a long-defunct Google Group I setup for the Apple Stores in Kansas City to use as a social organization tool to plan group events, share news and info, or otherwise connect with our peers. 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